Our growth and development process is a continuous journey that commences from the moment of conception and persists until our last breath.
It encompasses various stages and milestones, each contributing to our physical, emotional, and cognitive maturity. Whether we are infants learning to crawl and speak or adults pursuing our passions and goals, our development remains an ongoing and dynamic process that shapes who we are and who we will become.
It is an undeniable truth that the creation of something from nothing is an impossible feat, and eventually, all things will come to an end and return to a state of nothingness.
However, if we are not devoid of substance, there is always the potential for progress and betterment in all aspects of our lives.
“Just as a candle cannot burn without fire, man cannot live without a spiritual life.” (Buddha)
If we have missed all the developments we were bound to undergo in childhood, then adulthood is never too late to give them a shot.
All it would take is to gather everything in one heap and toss them all in one try with fingers crossed, hoping that all would end well.
It’s important to remember that the conclusion of a particular event or phase should not be perceived as the conclusion of everything.
Your approach to such circumstances can significantly influence your perspective on the future. Instead, consider it a prospect for a new start, an occasion to commence a brand-new expedition brimming with possibilities and boundless opportunities.
Our route for development is always towards a specific goal. And since nothing comes from nothing, it is unarguable that we were innately confident.
We were all entitled to confidence unless we turned away from this gift, which is the typical reaction of most people who have failed on their initial shot.
Self-confidence is an essential component of our psychological makeup as human beings. It is rooted in our deep-seated drive to succeed and showcase our talents and abilities to the world. This drive to excel and live life to the fullest propels us forward and motivates us to pursue our goals passionately and passionately.
With self-confidence as our guiding light, we can navigate life’s challenges and emerge victorious with the knowledge that we have what it takes to succeed. So let us embrace our unique strengths and talents, and let them shine forth, as we strive to make our mark on the world.
From our birth comes the weak foundation of our inner self-confidence. We are then responsible for intensifying this fortress as we age. Being unable to do so is a form of disregard towards the precious gifts accompanying self-confidence.
“The spiritual life is not a life before, after, or beyond our everyday existence. No, the spiritual life can only be real when it is lived in the midst of the pains and joys of the here and now.” (Henri Nouwen)
If you failed to develop your self-confidence as a child, then think of it as a loss you must learn from. Now, all you have to do is to muster all your strength so you can start anew.
You have a lifetime to change the course of your life; you have been given all the stock you need to get your world moving. You could appreciate your worth if you realized how beautiful your blueprints are.
Always remember that you are a unique creation of God, made with intention and purpose. You are a beautiful manifestation of love and deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.
Whenever you feel doubts creeping in, take a moment to reflect on how God carefully crafted every aspect of your being and has a plan for your life. You are worthy and never forget that.
Imagine the Divine Being gave you the favor of His eternity. Then you, the creature, would put all these to waste because you had failures you can’t get over?
Because you had failures that let you see the imperfections you created for yourself? Because your failures caused you to be less confident of your beauty? Think again. Heap all your memories and let the best times shine, and you will see how wonderfully you were created.
It’s essential to recognize the immense value of self-care and personal development, especially if you’ve faced challenges in the past that may have impeded your success.
By focusing on your growth and self-support, you can move forward with greater assurance and determination, ultimately leading to increased overall well-being and happiness. It’s worth prioritizing these practices as you continue your journey toward a fulfilling life.
Developing self-confidence is always easy if you truly believe you can grow. The problem is that you must create more walls against yourself and the development even before you have started your attempts.
These walls would not only hamper you from seeing the other side of yourself but also cause you not to jump over your present negative domain.